Every generation appears to face its own set of problems.  Our children's world, while only slightly removed from our own, can seem rather distant and unfamiliar.  Not only their language, but their behavior, can take on a foreign feel that presents even the most seasoned parent with a steep learning curve. 

The "generation gap" of old somehow reinvents itself with each new visit to the hospital nursery. Despite the challenges, there are basic principles than can help us lead our children with confidence.  Notice I said, “lead”.  Our young adventurers are on a journey through what can seem like a dark and unfamiliar forest.  In such a situation, we would certainly want them to have only the most experienced and knowledgeable guides leading the way.  Who better to guide than parents?  Whether toddlers or teens, we have the opportunity and responsibility of clearing a path they can follow.

Behavior

Children learn behavior just like they learn their A, B, and C’s.  

Family Values

Family values pass from generation to generation

Bonding

Children need bonding time to strengthen their sense of security.

India’s cultural heritage has its base in Indian values like non violence, respect for elders, for the tools of their trade, family bondage, and the very Indian “athiti devo bhava” In spite of the diversity in the Indian continent, these values are cherished. The value of prayer in India in some form or the other is prevalent in all sections of society. Whether it is at home or at the place of work, the day starts off with a prayer. The old and infirm are taken care of at home and family ties are very strong.

With the increasing influence of the west, it has become very hard for parents to try and keep these values intact, for the younger generation is always in a sense of conflict between the values that they have and the values that are. The age old adage “cleanliness is next to godliness” still holds good. This is something that all parents should inculcate in their children as it is a form of discipline.

It's challenging to be a good parent, and there are so many obstacles that get in the way, so here are some things you can do in these busy times of ours to continue being a great parent to your children.

Step 1

Teaching kids respect, responsibility and giving them lots of love is challenging when there are so many parents working 10 to 12 hour days. Children these days lack the respect their elders were taught. What happened to "please" and "thank you"? Are they missing at home? Respecting your children by thanking them for a chore they did is a simple task to encourage them to do the same.

Step 2

Utilize home time wisely. If you have dinner to make, involve the kids! Stir the noodles, set the table, retrieve ingredients or read a recipe. Not only are you getting help in the kitchen, you are teaching your child cooking techniques, communication and multi-tasking abilities.

Step 3

Changing oil, washing the car? Bring the kids outside and teach them that it's okay to get dirty.

Step 4

Positive interaction and influence is also a key element to being a good parent. Negative vibes, feelings and emotions can tear a family apart. Keeping the entire home a positive environment will strengthen all the relationships in the house.

Step 5

Hugs and kisses are essential to everyday living. Without love, there is nothing. Give your children as many hugs every day as you can.